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Do You Want to Be Known?

Another couple, she says, “It seems like you’re hiding from me and using words to hide. It’s like that stealth bomber and how it distracts and focuses the attention away from the aircraft. It doesn’t feel direct or genuine and hinders my ability to know you (intimacy is that you want to know me and be known). Yet you tell me you want me to know you. That’s a strong message but it’s a mixed message.”


She is not sure if he really wants to be known or if he is happy with the current depth of the relationship. She wants emotional connection, not just words, but words that connect them.


Is this part of the reason you are looking for a separation and divorce? Will you fix this part of the communication before you consider dating others? Your Relationship with yourself determines the relationship with others...


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